Maya's* experience as a supported lodgings host
(*Name changed to protect privacy)
"Becoming a Supported Lodgings host has been one of the most rewarding things I've done," says Maya, who is 36, lives in North Manchester and works full time in finance.
She has been a host for a year and currently supports two young people in her home.
A chance conversation with a friend-of-a-friend - a Supported Lodgings host -prompted her to apply. "I've worked with children with disabilities, and have nieces and nephews, so I was confident I could help young people transition to adulthood."
Maya has supported four young people, with one having since moved into his own council property 'round the corner.' Although he now lives independently, he pops round to help with DIY or join Maya on a Costco run."We have a good relationship. It’s quite bittersweet when they move on," says Maya. "But that’s why I got into Supported Lodgings. I like helping people. It gives me joy and a sense of purpose."
Maya helps the young people she's hosting to develop everyday independence skills, from cooking and doing laundry, to budgeting. She has also helped them write CVs, apply for jobs, and navigate securing their own council house and furnishings.
When things don't go so well, Maya helps get things back on track. "One of my young people was disappointed with their GCSE results. So, we're looking into options, like re-sits and tutoring. Hopefully they'll improve their grades with support."
Day-to-day, everyone in the household does their own thing, going to work or college. In the evenings Maya encourages the young people to go along to the local leisure centre, which they can use for free. "They're young adults so they don't need you 24/7, but we do spend time together, like grocery shopping, and during the holidays we go for meals or bowling."
Whilst Supported Lodgings can be rewarding, Maya warns, "It's not a bed of roses. So, you do need a support system." Maya received training (mostly online to fit around work) and was connected with other Supported Lodgings providers to share their experiences. The young people also have their own social workers.
"Seeing your work come to life is what keeps you going. With the right support around you, you can make a real difference to a young person's life."